Another reason is that the guy might genuinely wish to stay away from sex, even from his wife and mistress. So many schools of thought have argued that a good number of men are always ready to go for sex, but I don’t believe so.
There are days that just the mere thought of sex, with all its wahala of foreplays, gets me tired even before the act itself.
I feel this must be the same for some men. Simply put, the guy is not just into sex at that point in time. And ordering his manhood to obey and start nodding like an agama lizard won’t do any good.
Simply put, lack of sexual desire!
The good news is that he will soon snap out of it. It’s also possible that he no longer finds her attractive.
Many wives tend to let themselves go to seed with respect to their appearances. They forget that it was something about their appearance that made their man chase and later married them.
Some men are suckers for big boobs, some for big bakassi, still, others go after lepacious (slim) babes, and another set goes for orobo (fat) babes.
Some men will die for fair complexion babes, others for dark-skinned babes.
A guy told me that what attracted him to his babe was the way she dresses. Different strokes for different people.
There’s no harm in always trying to make yourself look attractive. If not for your husband, then at least for yourself.
Every woman holds it as a duty to herself to look good and dress fine and sexy.
Dressing sexy does not mean showing off fat, flabby buttocks covered with stretch marks, or cleavages almost popping out. You can dress sexy without looking vulgar.
I don’t know any reason a wife can’t dress in transparent clothes once she’s alone with her husband. Let him see those nipples through the clothes.
Let him see the V between your thighs and salivate. It will do your ego good. You can make him not lose interest in you sexually.
A guy can also begin to lose sexual interest in his wife if she’s one of those sexually inhibitive ladies. Ladies who can never be caught dead embarking on adventurous sexual styles in bed.
The good thing about adventurous sex styles in bed is that it makes both partners stay longer in bed, sample each other’s bodies slowly and sinfully and it makes the imagination work overtime.
I mean being innovative. I know there are women who balk at anything different from the missionary style.
Phew! They can’t even give their husbands blow jobs or allow their husbands to suckle their honey well.
It will also be good for a wife to give to her husband as well as she gets. What do I mean you ask?
Meet him thrust for thrust. Don’t just lay there like a log of wood. This is your husband. He’s not a badly dressed movie actor, sweating, and panting over you.
For pity’s sake, show a little bit of interest in the game both of you are playing on the bed! The gusto with which you welcome him into bed for lovemaking is an aphrodisiac, especially anytime his mind replays the sexual scene.
But what really got Oji sitting up was when I told him about mistresses using black magic to ‘padlock’ manhood.
Should we talk about padlocking the penis?
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