Hold it right there ND…you’re beginning to overshoot your mouth…I only wanted people to have a refreshing idea of what lovemaking is.
Now you want to start talking nonsense…you want to corrupt my good readers?… be careful!
Anyway, what ND just described as to how he and his wife used to have sex, is what truly connotes lovemaking.
In lovemaking, you want to savour the taste of your partner…your partners’ body and sex fragrance envelope you.
You both want to take all the time in the world to kiss, caress, and fondle. A good measure of time is given to foreplay.
Lovemaking is you waiting for him/her to catch up with you as you realise that your train of pleasure and orgasm is leaving your partner behind. It entails sacrifice because you want your partner to derive as much joy and pleasure from the encounter as you.
Both of you don’t want the other to be disappointed. And if perchance you leave her behind and reach the Island of orgasm before her, then you can have to make her reach that Island.
To make reach it also entails sacrifices and patience. You can suckle her clit or gently caress it to make her come. Don’t ever caress the clitoris in a rush, to avoid inflicting bruises. You can only increase the tempo as passion heightens.
Lovemaking is asking her/him after the joyous ride, if he/she is sexually satisfied. Yes, you must ask because making sexual noises like hum! Haaa! ohhhh! Sometimes is just mere ego greasing, fake!
Couples, who want to make love, must learn how to talk both in and out of bed.
They must look for a cupboard to lock up shyness. Their discussions should be greatly seasoned with large doses of sexual innuendoes…talks about parts of their body that arouse them.
Such discussions prepare the partners and make them want to do better in another round.
Once the lovers come together, the woman’s head is pillowed on his manly shoulders, while they both probably wear stupid grins of satisfaction, touching softly, tracing patterns on both naked bodies.
If you’re there and you’ve not experienced lovemaking, I feel so sorry for you!
People should begin to know the power of the tongue and how to put it to better use in lovemaking. But sadly, because the hole is there and the peg is there, the tongue is often neglected.
The tongue is a chisel. It can be used both as a flat and long tool, depending on the areas you wish to penetrate while making love with your partner.
Lovemaking naturally comes with a good dose of emotional commitment. You love him…he loves you…or she/he cares a great deal about you. Between the lovers, there’s no inhibition.
Whether her boobs are saggy or not, he wouldn’t even notice. All he sees is HER! And all she sees is HIM!
In lovemaking, you forget about missionary styles, embarking on amazing sidekicks that will make both of you hit your G-spots.
I just get sick and tired of the missionary style. It’s for our Papa and Mama. Lovemaking brings and binds couples together.
There’s one wonderful style I just learned. If you folks are good, I’ll share it.
What!
You got to be kidding me…this guy is asking me to describe sex as opposed to lovemaking…
Haba! After this lengthy discussion on what lovemaking is, you should be able to pick out what sex is.
But in a nutshell, sex is rush in, rush out. It’s impatient to be through…it’s not giving…you can have it with a professional prostitute.
When relationships begin to crack between husband and wife, they slowly stop making love, resorting to sex. Sex is often done as a routine, than for pleasure between married couples.
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