Preacher icon. Vector illustration

Preacher icon. Vector illustration

Apparently, she had tried to have a talk with her husband over the issue, but the guy was too enveloped in his church and the needs of his members.

He forgot about the needs of his wife.

It’s annoying you know and wicked. You don’t want to ball your wife, yet she can’t possibly cheat.

Yes! Let’s not forget, she’s the ‘mummy’ of the church.

And even if she’s not the mummy of the church, it’s tough to see an African woman cheating on her husband.

Sick and tired of the situation, she went tattling to two male members of the church, hoping they would speak with her husband.

These men are supposed to be elders in the church.

But instead, the story travelled like wildfire in the church, with it gathering dust, filths, fabrication, and embellishment from different narrators.

I honestly didn’t know what she was thinking when she went washing her dirty linen to the church men; but the gossip almost destroyed her marriage.

Yeah, she made a bad move, but I guess she was desperate.

Listen, pastor, wherever you may be, your wife comes first!

Yes, take that to the bank!

If you can’t love and cherish the woman with whom you exchanged vows to love and cherish, how do you begin to love God whom she can’t see?

You don’t have the moral right to stand at the podium, preaching to a married couple how to have and keep a happy home when yours is on fire.

Abeg comot the speck wey dey your eyes jare!

As a man of God, it behooves you to love, worship, and treat your wife well. And taking care of your wife and treating her well, includes balling her.

Don’t take her for granted.

When last did you notice the clothes, she had on, or the type of hairstyle she did?

When last did you pay her attention or complimented her?

An average woman enjoys attention from her man. Treating your wife well as a man of God is not a privilege, it’s a right!

Personally, it’s a damn sin to marry a woman without balling her always.

Just imagine her core, rusting….not fair!

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