Many wives are doing it and their husbands pretend not to be aware.
Yes, banging another guy in order to get money. The money will go into taking care of the husband and kids.
Situations in the world and Nigeria especially are deteriorating, and so also are moral values taking leaps into trashcans.
Husbands now stay at home, while the wives go out to work. Some men can’t stomach such a situation, but a good number welcome it.
Under the guise of joblessness on the part of the guy, a lot of matrimonial atrocities are allowed to happen.
In a sane relationship, a guy is supposed to take care of the babe, not the other way around.
But these days, we find women taking care of their husbands.
She goes out… allows every willing guy to download into her and later she goes home, to prepare food with the money men had given her. In fact, most times, the husband will be the first to tell her, “welcome, how was today!”
You may be shocked to hear this, but it’s happening even as we speak.
I can forgive men who sense their wives are doing this, but pretend about it. But I can’t forgive men, husbands, and lovers who cajole their babes into embarking on such money-making ventures.
I know it used to happen before, but I was surprised that it’s still happening today.
It’s sheer craziness to expect a babe to prostitute, just to prove that she loves you.
Some women have chicken brains. They fall for any stupid and silly ploys all in the name of love.
Love is the most overused and manipulated word and emotion.
How can you sell your body, just because you love someone and don’t want that person to stop loving you?
I recalled when I was dating a guy. Apparently, his friends used to do such with their babes, but I didn’t know.
I guess they sold the idea to him and he tried to sell such nonsense to me. I almost died of shock.
Yes, things were pretty bad back then. We were always hard up. Our love couldn’t fill our stomachs. No matter how many times you make love, it will never stop the hunger pangs.
I was working back then, but my salary was just N700.
I loved him, but I had family obligations. The little I could do, I did. But I was not ready to break a limb.
When he started yapping about the nonsense, my countenance changed.
He noticed and faltered.
I was boiling. I wanted to kill him. I attacked him verbally. I couldn’t believe that he wanted me to have sex with other men just to change our financial situation.
I railed, snarled and yelled. He suddenly laughed. He said he was joking. He was just testing me.
Na lie! Shey he think say dem born me yesterday? Before Abraham, there was Jesus Christ ojare! I know all the parol!
He had always professed his love, but such daring and atrocious talk make a babe realise the extent of a guy’s love for her. The love that can’t stand the test of time.
You want to know what he asked me to do.
EFCC calls it advance fee fraud, but most of us call it 419.
He said I should go and stand on the road, that there was no way a guy in a flashy car wouldn’t stop at the sight of my fair complexion face.
He was sure it would work because his friends’ babes were not even as prettier as I was and they were bringing home money.
My job was to go with the car owner or rich guy and start having sex or dating him. Only it wouldn’t be real dating. All I needed was to get information about him or steal his money or chequebook.
The dating he said wouldn’t be real, but what about the banging?
Film trick dey for such banging? Abeg tell me!
Idiot!
Just thinking about it got me worked up all over again.
Thunder fire am!
And to date, a lot of men are still doing it!
Mind you, men also prostitute to please the babes they love. Worse, many of them even take to robbery to please their women.
Utter rubbish!
Believe me, a guy who loves likes or cares about you will never want another guy to sniff you, let alone to ask you to bang another guy.
Real love is jealous and possessive.
Some men will do everything and anything to assist their wives or babes to go overseas, especially to Italy, to do prostitution. She’ll be sending money, to secure their future. The guy will be in Nigeria, picking the dough and investing for both of them.
Na marriage be that?
She has sex with maybe 100 men, buys a car for you and you’re happy. You don’t care about the billions of semen she swallowed to buy that flashy car for you.
The ‘baddest’ are men who know their wives are prostituting overseas, even talked these women into it, yet use whatever money she sends to indulge and spoil other ladies.
I know of a woman, who has about four kids. The husband has been out of a job for long. The woman took to selling fruits.
She paid the house rent; children’s school fees, clothing, bills and feeding.
Was the husband so daft as to imagine that the money used in doing all these comes from the profits made from selling fruits?
The skeleton finally stumbled out of the cupboard one day.
The news was that she was dating her cousin’s husband; the guy in question was well-to-do.
There was uproar from all quarters; her husband fumed, her in-laws railed and her cousin and other family members were dumbfounded.
Why would she do such? If she must, why didn’t she pick any other guy? Why her cousin’s husband?
Why was her husband shocked? Where did he think she was getting money to buy items to prepare soup every time? Perhaps he thought he was eating manna from heaven?
Personally, he was living in denial. He knew his wife was doing something to make sure they all eat, but he preferred to pretend it wasn’t happening.
The problem however is that this sort of deal often tends to backfire. Such guys hardly marry such babes.
Another thing, the babe may end up falling for the supposed maga. Yes, your wife may leave you for the other guy.
Yes, the maga may turn out to be hot in bed than the babe’s guy who engineered the deal.
It may not even be the sex. She could fall for him. Yes!
Anyway, I really don’t get why people do stupid things in the name of love. And I don’t understand why a multitude of sins are enveloped with love.
It’s high time we started loving with our two eyes wide open and our thinking caps on. Gone are the days when you smile like a fool and say love is blind.
Like my friend Gordon the comedian used to say, “If you do anyhow, you go see anyhow.”
Forget that nonsense that Davido has been crooning, that a lady prefers love to Ferrari; which planet the babe come from?
Shey na planet Mars?
Never allow any person to take your love for granted. If you do, you will not be worth much in the eyes of the person later on. In as much as you love, do it with dignity and pride. Most importantly, don’t do crazy kinds of stuff to proof to a guy/babe that you love him/her.
